Ummm yeah…quite a question right?
What would you do when the person that you are dating asks you that dreaded question. Do you lie, tell the truth, deflect or just act like that question was never posed?!
I remember in college we had a seminar on dating and sex. The highlight of that discussion focused on how many people were TOO many. I couldn’t help but wonder why the majority of the guys stated that 7 was too high of a number.
WTF? You have to be seriously kidding me!!!
Who a woman sleeps with and what she decides to do with her personal time is her business. As long as she is safe and healthy what does it matter?? Is it the ego of a man or pride that stops them from dealing with such a woman?
Could you pass up a great woman because her number was too high? Where is this hypocritical standard coming from?
Now don’t get me wrong, you shouldn’t be sleeping with every and anything but you shouldn’t be penalized when it comes to love if you choose to do so.
Why is it that guys can sleep with X amount of woman and then have the audacity to utter a number such as 7 or 10? Worse is that woman have also adapted the same mindset and will judge a woman accordingly to her number.
How can a woman be honest and open when she has the fear that she would be judged on what happened in her past?
I really hate this double standard.
Does It Matter How Many Sex Partners A Girl Has?
The guy claimed 150 people…ummm that is a whole LOT of people…for either man or woman. Let’s be honest most people have slept with over 10 people. When you factor in age, the number can increasingly go up.
Now is this something that you discuss with your partner? Is it even worth it? How many of us discuss with our partners their sexual health history? Have you taken out the same amount of energy to figure out if they had ever contracted a sexual disease? Do we take out the time to sit down and get tested together?
I think that is more important than how many people they penetrated or been penetrated by…. do you agree?