This weekend was a great but there was something that came up that has left me unsure, uneasy and disappointed.
Honesty has been a topic that I have discussed with my bff and roomie relentlessly for the past two days. We all want people to be honest with us but where does that line get blurry when it comes to dating?
With everyone having options upon options, how and when do you decide to let someone that you are dating know about the rest? Is that even an option?
My definition of dating is dating to be in a relationship, now however long it takes to get there, is dependent on the two people in it. Yes, there will be times that you may entertain other people advances but how far is too far?
If you have been ‘dating’ someone for a couple of months when do you let them know that someone else has caught your interest; is that something that they should even know about?!?
Do you wait until you guys have racked up enough text messages to write a short story? Until you have spent enough money on dates that you feel confident that they will
lay it low and spread it wide?
I was talking to one of my male friends who has become very close and special to me in a short time span. I listen to his advice and can’t wait to update him on my life.
After our brief conversation about my weekend, we delved right in about honesty and how that factors in dating. He left me with a different perspective that had me thinking.
…in my opinion noone is held accountable until the moment that both parties explicitly express a mutal understanding and agreement of a monogamous and exclusive connection and relationship that being said…i think its perfectly fine…